Dating In Your 50s Easy For Men Not So Much For Women!

Dating In Your 50s Easy For Men Not So Much For Women!

You want someone who cares about you, not who sees you as an accessory. My youngest is still at university and has chosen to take a marathon runner’s approach to completing what will be 8 years of study to culminate in his PhD. So I feel free of any responsibilities of children even though I know that I have some “power freeloaders” still living at home with me. I am an inherently monogamous person, but several women had casual sexual relations with prior lovers while showing serious interest in me.

Infidelity and lack of relationship commitment

Bit of baggage (not a bit of ‘a baggage’!) from 20 years in a relationship – with a younger man. You are right Confused – he took off with a younger version just after he made it to 40 – but hey, we’re all human. 65% marriages end in divorce & of those 75% are initiated by women so that means that 75% of husbands in 65% of RS are no good , an unlikely number. Debbie relations between men and women have reached an all time low with neither trusting the other this leads to a lack of interaction and commitment involvement equals no hurt. Its so bad that young men have a growing movement MGTOW ” men going their own way” basicly men will endeavour to sleep with women but thats it.

With these women, as a man, I seem to have two strikes against me before they even get to know me. They seem bitter that they’re alone and, to a certain degree, take it out on prospective partners. Confirmed Bachelor…………I completely understand what you are saying. You are confirming a harsh reality.

How well does the rule reflect scientific evidence for age preferences?

You sound like a good man who tried to do the right thing and got your butt kicked for it. In a way I have some similar parts to my story. Like you I also have to keep stress at a minimum for my optimal functioning and wellbeing. I understand the importance and necessity of peace in my life, but occasionally I also enjoy some adventures. When I contacted men whose profiles I liked they didn’t have the courtesy to respond.

That’s different from a casual relationship where sex is all there is. Many don’t find that type of relationship satisfying, because it does nothing for the soul, only the body. It all depends on what you’re looking for. This country as a whole has an obesity problem. I get that you’d like to be with someone who cares enough about their own health and appearance. I don’t judge someone based on looks, but for comfort on many levels I understand wanting a partner who is height/weight proportionate.

Those odds are what’s known as a sucker’s bet. And the very sad thing is that there are many of us very good men out there that just can’t find love at all, no matter how we try. I really hate being single since it isn’t any fun at all when we really are all alone with no one to talk too either. This society has really changed for the worst of all . And many of us definitely would’ve been all settled down ourselves with our very own family that many of us men still don’t have today as i speak.

He is financially wise and will splurge on special occasions and budget for his favorite things. By clicking Submit you agree to Zoosk’s terms of use and privacy policy. When it comes to messaging, men who like older woman have a slight advantage. Men in their 20s typically match with women who are half a year younger. Men in their 30s typically match with women who are 1.5 years younger.

I realize that some of us are sort of paper tigers, have a few superficial qualities, but don’t know how to treat a woman right. At least you finally had some luck with a dating site. When I had a membership I had lots of annoying things happening including no responses from men, so I finally ditched the dating site. I won’t pay for bad service from the site or aggravation from potential dates.

Anyway, I hope to be back enjoying my self with a woman in the not to distant future, we can talk on phone if you like or by email so we can exchange photos. What you have written is the words that come from my heart, after 7 years of separation, I still can’t believe that I can open my heart to another man or have a feeling for. Because my ex was the only man in my life after my father. Financially stable, 2 lovely big kids, married and unmarried.

So doesnt demand anything from me while I am exploring having a great sex life after it waning years before hubby died. The stats on being alone as a woman my age I tend to believe. So, as contemporary men are not offering a proper loyal partnership and companionship; it means that older women who are interested in a sexual liaison would also choose younger men.

I won’t just give my body out like candy to anyone, but when I do find that special someone there will be a great deal of time spent in bed. If you men want the younger women then go for it. I prefer someone around my age because I will have more in common with that man and hopefully they will have the same level of maturity. I agree, I tried my luck at 2 dating sites for about six months, and not even a wink or a smile. Women do seem to make more of the mans looks rather than anything else.

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